No matter if it’s a friend, family member, or partner making you feel pressured into an abortion decision, it’s not okay. You may just need a listening ear when deciding what’s next for you regarding an unexpected pregnancy.
Legally, no one can force you into an abortion. Even if you are under 18 years old, you cannot be forced to have an abortion against your will.
Signs You Are Being Pressured
1.You Feel Like You Don’t Have a Choice
Is your partner, parent, or family member unwilling to hear your thoughts and opinions about your pregnancy? Are those around you trying to make your pregnancy decision for you? These are all forms of pressure.
No matter your age or situation, no one can force you into something unless you let them. Know that you have the final say.
2.You Feel Unsafe
In some cases, you may even feel like your safety is threatened by a partner or family member. If this is the case, seek help right away.
If you feel like your safety is at risk, call the National Domestic Abuse Hotline immediately. A representative can help you with the resources you need to find safety.
Indirect Pressure Signs
There are indirect signs that you are being pressured into abortion. Maybe your parents are hinting that a child would not be good for you right now, or your partner is sharing that this will be difficult for your relationship. Though these signs are settled, it still doesn’t make them okay.
You Make the Final Decision
A study by the Journal of American Physicians and Surgeons shares that almost 75% of women who had an abortion felt at least subtly pressured into getting one. And of these women who felt pressured into abortion, many suffered severe mental health outcomes afterward, including feelings of:
Shame
Guilt
Regret
Self-hatred
Low self-esteem
Anxiety
Making a final pregnancy decision for yourself is important for your future. You will be the one most impacted in the days to come.
We’re Here for You
If you need free and confidential options education and support, we are here for you at Women’s Pregnancy Center.
An unplanned pregnancy may be scary, but the Women’s Pregnancy Center can help you remove the fear and confusion through our free services and non-judgmental atmosphere. Schedule a free appointment today to be informed.